The Six Reasons On what You Should Not Do If Your Man Is Cheating

The Six reasons on What you should not do if your man is cheating

The word cheating can be described as acting dishonestly or breaking of rules in order to gain an advantage. There are so many reasons of things you should not if you know that your partner is acting in a dishonest way that makes
you think, cry or even sometime wanna make you do some crazy things to yourself. Here is it, which includes 

1.  Don't Shout at him: shouting at him makes him to know your weak points. If you realise that he is cheating,why not fix an outing or date for him so you two can talk over his behavior. Fixing that date or outing makes him to fear and respect you because it will be hard for him to predict your moves. Now let's take for instance if you decided to shout at him over his behavior firstly he will feel so special like you are jealous(which is normal) and secondly he will make you to be in an unnecessary mood or competition that you don't like.  
2. Don't complain his nasty behavior to anybody that knows him: when you start discussing your problems about him to your Friends or his Friends or your both families ,he will not be happy with you just take it from me, men don't like it. Rather complain to a Mentor or your therapist or even someone that don't know him. Because when you complain to people that knows him one day they will surely use that against you or him. Handle your problems in a mature way. 
3. Don't waste your time confronting your partner's Mistress: this is the mistake we ladies do sometimes. Why are you confronting her,She does not have any business with you. The only person you have business with is your partner. Let me explain something to you,we women can be something else don't expect your fellow women to be like you. If you should confront her in an angry mood She will embarrass you in an angry or even tell the world how careless you are and also do something worst to you which you don't expect from her. Also Confronting her on a normal mood can make her to pretend as if She is listening to you but have it in mind that you are making her to feel so special as if She is the key holding your relationship or marriage happiness. Please let her be and face your business let your actions speaks for you and not actions of fighting and quarreling. 
4. Don't treat him bad: he is your man. Yes he has done something nasty to you, now is time for you to tell the world that you still love your relationship or marriage with your husband and you are his woman that knows how to handle him. Learn how to Pray, forgive,forget (I know it will not be easy for you to forget but keep trying) and move on. That should be every woman key of holding her happiness. Treating him bad will make his Mistress to ruin your relationship. Keep your man to your self alone.   
5. Don't monitor him: why wasting your time monitoring your man especially checking his phone to know whether he is still with that his Mistress or going to his Office to know what he is doing or asking people to help you check on him. These shows that you are insecure. I think you need to get something doing with your time. Men love their space a lot so give it to him. Show him that you love and trust him(well no body is perfect). Monitoring him shows how low your Self-esteem is. 
6. Don't leave your relationship: yeah that is that fact. Leaving your relationship because of his behavior is not wise. You will only leave if you both realise that your relationship is not working or try to take a break (which is normal). Yes, you saw what he did to you and it makes you to be angry or mad at him. Please don't leave your relationship rather pray for him. Leaving will only bring hatred, sadness, bitterness and lack of trust in your life because you will generalise it that all men are the same. No dear, men are not the same try and make a history with your relationship that your man is the same with others. And his Mistress will take control over wat you have worked for so my years. 

Finally,Dear have it in your mind that no body is perfect. The only keys to hold your relationship is to learn how to pray, forgive,Forget,understand each other, trust and Move on. Be a Virtue Woman.